If sex is like pizza, then oral sex is like ice cream: super satisfying when it’s right, but a wet, disappointing mess when served poorly. And believe it or not, according to recent studies, men are still, STILL not going down on their partners as much as women would like. Even if you are one of those wonderful guys that goes down on a regular basis, how do you know you’re doing it right? Are you using it as just a warmup for intercourse, or are you really taking your time to be the best you can be down under? Pick a position that’s comfortable for both of you and set up camp — rushing this process is one of the biggest mistakes that men make in bed. Take your time to give attention to all of her sensitive areas surrounding the clitoris (just because it’s the star of the show doesn’t mean you should tackle it in the first 30 seconds).
When you finally do make contact with the clitoris, go slowly, build anticipation and pay attention to how she responds. Experiment with different pressure and patterns, and don’t be afraid to use your hands to amplify her experience. Oral sex is all about investing time and effort into just one thing: your partner’s pleasure. Show her you appreciate her and care about her orgasm just as much as your own.
Every once in awhile, it’s even nice to make oral sex the ONLY thing on the bedroom menu… So next time you’re feeling frisky and getting ready for sex, remember there’s a variety of different styles of sex that will not only satisfy you, but will also appeal to what she wants. So go forth and show her that you know exactly how to turn her on, pique her pleasure, and keep her coming back for more.