When a man loses his mother through disagreement, death running off with a step father and many more ways, he tends to seek refuge. Finding a woman is usually the first thing that comes in a real man’s mind in order to get over his emotions of losing his mother.
Men are usually very close to their mothers while women to their fathers. That closure of a man to his mother leaves a huge space in his life when his best friend is no more. Baby sitting a man is the last thing a woman would need because herself is also seeking for a protection from a real man. Same applies to the woman when she leaves her father; she looks for a man who will make her feel secure and safe. When a man fails to put that on the table then the woman interprets it as “baby sitting”.