🤷🏻‍♂How do we find ourselves in a relationship 🤧mess?
☝There is this kind of blindness 😚that tends to overpower when in your first dating👨‍❤‍👨 moments. People usually say true colors can hide for years, 🙅🏻‍♂but I disagree.

The signs🚏 are always there even though we choose 🤦🏻‍♀not to see the disappointing 😳side of it, due to desperation 😬and being hungry 🤑like a lion.
Women🙅 though have this tendency of working on a man to change👎 whatever she doesn’t like about him. Which actually opens up doors for disappointment💔 because men generally don’t look for someone to change 🤷🏻‍♂them, they look for someone to accept 🙏them the way they are.
On that first date 👨‍❤‍👨your partner’s phone 📲rings and they get up to go answer it outside🏃🏻 the restaurant🏤. That itself is a sign 🚏of discretion🤐. Why should 🤷🏻‍♂you complain years down the line when they do it at home🏡 as if the signs weren’t there from day one?

Like I usually🤷🏻‍♂ say, when we get 🤧hurt in life, there is always no one else to blame but👉 you. Whatever you see on the first date👨‍❤‍👨 don’t expect it to change↩ otherwise you are on your own😬 on that one.