Communication is the key in a relationship and whatever that you decide to do it is no longer you making these decisions but both of you. Having to consult your partner before making a choice is a very difficult thing to do especially when you are so used to be independent and do your own things whenever it suits you
Even though communication is the key in relationships, the words you use should be chosen wisely. The tongue is a double two edged swords and is capable of dividing anything that is united. The things that you say to each other can either build your relationship or tear it apart.