Question: But what if i don't feel like having sex? There is nothing like that if you are in love with someone. Sex is supposed to be a game that couples should be able to enjoy and feel like playing it whenever they are doing nothing, just to pass time. Each one should know where the other's buttons are.
Communication is the key. Tell each other what turns you on and off. Some men have this tendancy of rushing like a chicken without even romancing or teasing the woman. I would suggest you teach the man how to first play with you as well as turning you on before he rushes into you.