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Rejection

Fear of Rejection

😫 Fear of Rejection

😖Rejection is an experience that most humans 👨‍👨‍👧‍👦find it traumatizing😫. Is it the feeling 😖of loneliness or afraid😫 of danger without no one to 👮rescue you? Rejection😫 occurs in 3 different ways or stages📶, each one leading to 🆙the other should an individual does not break the cycle🌀 at an early stage👇.
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☝1st stage is when you get rejected 😫by people👨‍👨‍👧‍👦 (primary stage). ✌2nd stage is when you guard 💪yourself by rejecting 😬people before they reject 👉you. (Motion stage). ✌👆3rd stage is when you reject yourself☹ by depriving🙅🏻‍♂ yourself of what you deserve. E.g. Not doing or going to certain 🎡places 🏤because you don’t feel worthy ☹and refusing ✋to take favors🤝 because you feel like they might be 🤔up to something👊. (Secondary stage)
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🤷🏻‍♂Being independent is a very good 😎element of life🕴. Though, when people 👨‍👨‍👧‍👦offer help, favor or🤝 a hand, doesn’t 🙅🏻‍♂necessarily imply that they feel sorry😘 for you. Some 🤷🏻‍♂people are naturally just givers 🤝and it makes their 🤷🏻‍♂day when they do it. 🙅🏻‍♂Drop those trust😬 issues and receive🤝 whatever you are given with both hands 👐and a smile😄. If you don’t feel🤷🏻‍♂ good about it, take🤝 it and pass it 🤳on to someone who needs 🙏it the most.