Men and women are two different species. How?
These are two kinds that can’t live with each other and can’t live without the other. The only way to get along is to learn how the other thinks. Each has their weak and strong point and therefore, strengthen each other in tough times.
Men deal with situations the opposite from women. When a man is disturbed he enters his cage of total silence. In this cage he takes his toys with in order to process the whole situation and these toys include cell phone, tv remote, play station, soccer, his car, alcohol etc.
The woman screams at him “you don’t even care, just sitting playing with the remote, doing nothing” He is busy processing in his silence. He comes to her after 3 days and says “honey, I’ve been thinking about what you said”. The woman can’t even remember because she has been thinking out loud, talking to everybody at the mall, neighbors, at church and her girlfriends.
Women think out loud. When a woman talks a lot, it doesn’t necessarily mean she wants him to do anything. She is thinking out loud and by this, she feels better when she says it out. We need to understand each other and by so, we will live in peace and harmony.